Telling about one’s spiritual journey is common in Evangelical communities. It’s an invitation to talk about your conversion. But there is no reason why mainline Christians can’t do that, too, even though we are usually baptized as infants. I advocate telling about your spiritual journey in terms of how close or far from God you have been over the years of your life.
I invite you to think in terms of the chart below. It is small. You can reproduce it on a larger sheet of paper. Plot out your personal journey. The vertical line represents how far or close to God you were at various stages of your life, represented by the horizontal line.
A typical journey is the chart on the right. What was your God relationship like when you were confirmed, if that’s your story? For some that is a time of closeness, when the truths they have been taught in catechism class make sense—at an eighth-grade level. Then may come a time of drifting away during the challenging years of high school. Maybe the drift is further down on the chart during college and young adulthood. With young-adult responsibilities of marriage and children, many believers do return to attending church, where they may stay with sporadic and passive attendance. The small dotted line represents the old understanding when the ideal was to stay faithful to your confirmation vows.
If your congregation is well functioning, you get drawn into deeper fellowship and growth in your relationship with God. Where are you now on the chart?
Here is the payoff question: Where do you want to be in the future? Are you going to stay as you are? Or do you want to be drawn even closer to God and to experience more of the fruit the Spirit offers?
In other blogs I have written about four stages of faith development: 1) merit-based faith, 2) confirmed faith, 3) convicted faith and 4) close-to-God faith. The second is typical of most members in a main-line church—confirmed passive faith. Some are at the third stage—convicted active faith and involvement in congregational life. A few make it to the fourth stage of faith and ministry—very close to God.
Movement toward the third and fourth stages is not something you do on your own. The Holy Spirit has to move you there. Often that comes through a “wall” experience when you cannot maintain the life routines you have had, through perhaps a serious illness, or loss of a job, or death of someone close to you. Then spiritual truths you have confessed take on much more meaning. They become convicted faith with more active involvement in serving others. You know who you are in Christ and want to worship God and serve others.
Why would you want to grow beyond Stage 2 of head-oriented confirmed faith? Because then the Spirit can bring about more of his special fruit in your life—his gifts of more love, joy, peace, patience and other motivations like that. Who would not want to grow into more of these characteristics?
Although the Spirit brings the changes in motivation, you yourself can take action to help that process. You can put yourself in the Spirit’s workplace—a fellowship of believers gathered around God’s word and sharing application to their life situations.
You can learn to wait upon the Spirit. You can do GROWTH practices I advocate. You can Go to God in worship and prayer, Read his Word for you, Opt for self-denial, give Witness to your experiences, Trust God in a new venture and Humble yourself before God.
I have grown to put myself in the Holy Spirit’s hands.
My relationship with the Holy Spirit is a “pray without ceasing” growth.
I acknowledge Him for all my actions and I love to share the results and Spiritual growth with our bible study group at church and with any people the Lord leads me to do so.
Knowing He is always there is my strength.
Trusting Him has enhanced my relationship in a rapid living exciting experience.as I grow.
I pray all will do the same!
Sounds like a wonderful relationship close to Christ. To grow even more challenge yourself to new ventures that stretches your trust in God.
We each have something we are dealing with because we are human and live in a sinful world. God uses this to encourage us to trust him, not our circumstances, and through that, grow close to Him. Every time I think, “ok, I’ve got this now”, that “thing” comes up again and I realize I’m not there yet! It’s been a building process for me. Emotions, can you trust them? No! Sometimes I have to preach to myself as a reminder that God is who I rely on for everything.
Hi, Karen.
Thanks for sharing your experienced perspective. We are always on the way. But my reading of the Christian life in the Spirit is that the best is yet to come.
Dave